valentines day tips for guys

valentines day is coming and most guys are scratching their head wondering what to buy for their girlfriend. have no fear, i hope this will help. its the normal, nothing great and standard gift, on the safe side. just in case she doesnt like the dress u picked, or the cap that will mess up her hair and maybe the new computer game that she doesnt know existed. so here goes!


1. a bouquet of flowers, usually guys opt for roses. because its beautiful, elegant and romantic. although the price hiked up like a million times, but you guys should just get it for her. if you cant afford it, buy it at a smaller size, and mix it with other tiny flowers for decoration, so it makes the whole bouquet even bigger than it supposed to be. make sure the ribbons or papers wrapping it is not ugly!

2. chocolates. heart shaped chocolates or chocolates in heart shape. this is the second most common gift ever, but nothing can go wrong because girls love chocolate. (unless shes on a diet) wrapped it with ribbon and voila, give her both flowers and chocolates! easy.

3. if your girlfriend is on diet, skip the chocolates and buy her a teddy instead. everyone loves a teddy, and every girl has a teddy. no matter what. if she likes dogs, get her a stuffed dog, or dooodolls, hello kitty, domokun, u know? anything she likes.



4. handmade cards. instead of buying the ones in store, make a card! it shows ur sincerity and it is cheap! it doesnt have to be super nice, fancy and huge. because girls are sucker for sincerity. we dont care if you got us the biggest card, we prefer it handmade!! and u can write your message wherever and however u want it to be!


5. rings. one single ring for her or couple rings. whichever u can afford. no girls will say no to a ring. but dont bother getting a really fancy and expensive one unless you have truckloads of money. why? because when u want to propose later, u need a better one. so get her something classy, so she could wear and show it off to her friend until you are ready to give her a better one.
6. homecooked dinner. i know many of you cant cook, but if u can. whip out something simple. fried egg, bacon, sausages, and salad to make it look healthy. add two candle so you could enjoy candlelight dinner. romantic level : high. home cooked dinner is recommended because it will be really surprising for her. unless you have truckload of money, go book some fancy restaurant that she have been eyeing on. its ok to spoil her once a while.



7. if u want something really surprising, u can get her a pet. tiny ones. hamsters, rabbit, guinea pig or tortoise. whichever. but u have to be committed if you get her a pet, and show her that both of you can take good care of the pet, practicing to start a family. good for those who are together for some time now.


8. couple tee. you can get those couple tees that are made for couples, but i suggest getting a matching tee instead. it shows that you belong to her and it makes her happy. but if u guys are mushy enough, get those couple tee, matching tees are for those who are together for some time and maybe a little too old for couple tee. to be really special, go special print one set.


9. if you play guitar, this is a bonus for you. sing her a song from glee, bruno mars, justin bieber, etc. she will love you, because its the sweetest thing ever.




10. most importantly, you yourself is the best gift ever. but that doesnt mean u can just present yourself with no gifts at all. she will get upset, even if she didnt show it. so buy her something nice, it doesnt have to be expensive. just be there with her on the special day, it makes everything perfect. even if you buy her the most expensive car, the biggest diamond and freshest flower, if you arent there, valentines day will be lonely for her. so be with her!